positivelyBLEAK Grinning back into the abyss.

9Mar/101

HATERS GONNA HATE: Groupies

Go ahead and roll your eyes; if you’re not in a band, then you prob­ably don’t like groupies. They’re up there on the stage in their tiny skirts while you’re down with the groundlings in the mosh pit. They get back­stage, sup­pos­edly purely on the merits of their appear­ances, and get to sip away at free booze until the head­lining act decides that they want to break off a piece of that. You might grumble about it under your breath when some huge guy knocks into you and dumps your $8 cup of Budweiser down the front of your shirt. ♠ Continue reading…

4Mar/103

The Very Best of YouTube Headbanging

It’s been a hell of a week for me, between my soul-​crushing day job and busily plan­ning for my birthday (I’m turning 25 on the 18th!!!), so I wanted to do a quick, JWZ-​style video run­down of one of my most favorite ways of burning off frus­tra­tion: head­banging. ♠ Continue reading…

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2Mar/100

Fashion For Metalheads: The Stoner & Doom Set

The eter­nally head­banging Steff Metal has a run­ning fea­ture called Fashion For Metalheads, where she gives a break­down of the styl­istic dif­fer­ences between genres – but I haven’t seen one of my per­sonal favorites, the droney, swampy, reverb-​y world of stoner and doom metal, fea­tured yet, so I inquired about writing a con­tin­u­a­tion on her theme and got the OK…here goes, you red-​eyed, swaying masses! ♠ Continue reading…

25Feb/103

NYFW: Bleakest Picks (Part II)

Earlier this week, I pointed out some of my favorite choices from NYFW 2010 – this year was a real hit in my book, with lots of tough, util­i­tarian styles and plenty of prop­erly femmed-​up rock and roll to be had. Here are some more col­lec­tions that I fell in love with this year! ♠ Continue reading…

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23Feb/102

NYFW: Bleakest Picks (Part I)

I love Fashion Week, but I’ve never been. (Well, I was once in NYC during it, but my accom­plice and I mostly loi­tered out­side and dealt with the fallout in the street – in no way does screaming “KAAARL!!” with a mouthful of Papaya King at the tents count as attending. It does, how­ever, get you checked out by the local beat cops, so don’t!) That doesn’t stop me from glazing over every time Fashion Week cov­erage showed on TV…and there’s some real joy to be found in dig­ging through photos of the col­lec­tions while in your pajamas! ♠ Continue reading…

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18Feb/101

The Beast Speaks: I Want Your Skulls

Violence and the macabre ahead: con­sider your­self warned!

As some of you might know, res­i­dent madman (and my very fab­u­lous beau) S. McManbeast has been dishing out horror and trans­gres­sive fic­tion for a while now – and he’s been kind enough to draft up a short story just for PosBleak! So, for anyone feeling a touch burnt out from the explo­sion of mush and roman­ti­cism over the past hol­iday, here’s an exclu­sive sample of death & destruc­tion, just for you! ♠ Continue reading…

16Feb/102

What I Wore To…Rich Horror’s Party Machine

For the non-​locals reading, O’Brien’s is basi­cally a hole in the wall, with a bar on one side and a stage on the other. It’s super small and has cheap drinks, which means that you can sit at the bar and still see the band really well – for a weekday show, my 9-​to-​5 draggin’ ass appre­ci­ates this. ♠ Continue reading…

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12Feb/100

McQueen is Dead, God Save McQueen

Can I get a moment of silence, please? ♠ Continue reading…

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11Feb/102

The High Court of Love: Having a Heavy Metal Valentine’s Day

Our familiar sickly-​sweet hol­iday wasn’t always this pus­si­fied. The ancient Romans called it Lupercalia, “the Wolf Festival,” you know, because of that she-​wolf that nursed Romulus and Remus…what, you weren’t paying atten­tion in Ancient History? Anyway, people ran around naked in the streets, a bunch of priests sac­ri­ficed goats, wore the raw goat pelts, and women lined up for the priests to beat them with the bloody bits of hide to ensure their fer­tility. ♠ Continue reading…

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9Feb/103

The Queen of Sex & Death: Bondage Gear as Casual Wear

I can’t open a fashion rag without seeing some­thing “bondage inspired” – it’s a really cool con­cept up until you run into the first rejected Lip Service model out in public.

You CAN wear bondage gear as casual clothing. You CAN wear it to the movies or the mall or dinner with Grammy. What you should first be doing is asking your­self if you SHOULD. Part of loving your­self involves not going out looking like a Cenobite. It’s going to take a lot of – ahem – restraint to pull off this look without giving your rel­a­tives a col­lec­tive heart attack or being tailed by mall secu­rity. ♠ Continue reading…

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